Trust me, mom - everyone else is going!  by roni cohen-sandler ph.d

Thousands of mothers found reassurance as well as real solutions for mother-daughter conflict in "I'm Not Mad, I Just Hate You!" Now, Roni Cohen-Sandler brings the same sound advice and practical expertise to the issues that erupt around a teenage daughter's social life. Whether a daughter is nearing puberty or in the throes of adolescence, mothers today anguish over the best way to deal with seemingly endless issues of attitude, self-image, secrecy, friends, boyfriends, and nightlife. Cohen-Sandler introduces a five-step approach to parenting teens effectively using the concept of BRAIN-Being flexible, respectful, attuned, involved, and noncontrolling-and addresses topics such as:

* To Snoop or Not to Snoop-respecting a daughter's privacy
* Parties and Partying-staying safe while having fun
* Body image and identity-how they relate to making smart decisions
* Setting limits-when they can become a detriment and when they can build trust

Rooted in psychologically sound principles as well as clinical and personal experience, this is a new model of parenting, based on love, trust, and discernment, for a new generation of mothers.

 

Reviews:

I’ve never been one to seek advice from parenting books, preferring to “wing it” through babyhood, toddlerhood, childhood. But now I’m in the throes of teenage “hood” and I’ll read anything I can get my hands on. A new title from Roni Cohen-Sandler, Ph.D., author of the bestseller I’m Not Mad, I Just Hate You! is especially helpful if you’re the mother of a teenage girl. Entitled Trust Me, Mom—Everyone Else Is Going! The New Rules for Mothering Adolescent Girls,” this book addresses topics which trouble most mothers (and fathers): privacy, safety, decision-making, independence and discipline. Cohen-Sandler draws on her expertise not only as a clinical psychologist but also as a parent, providing a wealth of examples from her experiences.

Add this one to your arsenal.

- Carolyn Kretzer, Watermark Books

Clinical psychologist Roni Cohen-Sandler clearly digs the teen argot, as evidenced by the title of her just-released Viking book, Trust Me Mom—Everyone Else Is Going! The New Rules for Mothering Adolescent Girls. (Her 1999 Viking title also reflected teenspeak: I’m Not Mad, I Just Hate You! A New Understanding of Mother-Daughter Conflict.)

- Publisher's Weekly


 

About the Author:

roni cohen-sandler, ph.d. is a clinical psychologist who specializes in the issues of women and adolescent girls. Her work has appeared in many national publications including Girls' Life magazine, Redbook, Seventeen, and the Daughters newsletter. Her numerous television and radio appearances include Oprah, Good Morning America, Montel, and CBS News.

 


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